...... why......

...... why......

Darlings are everywhere..

it's been a while since we last met.. hmm tho i've yet to number these darlings.. but anyhow, we had a great time just sitting at Starbucks just talking.

In melbourne, it would be starbucks, back here, also we chose Starbucks..lolz..
even though it was really short, but it was sweet =) thank you guys tonnes...love darlings!

A message from a friend

A message that 's meant to be shared because it shares such a big part of my feelings...

感觉

来谈谈爱的感觉。。

它，
让人觉得很甜蜜，
多份影子；多一个人陪，
多一双手；多一个人分担，
有了它， 我不再孤单，
不再害怕那漆黑的夜晚，
不在独自渡过的空虚的岁月，
因为无论在何方，
都会有一个人想著我、恋著我不论做什么事情， 只要能一起，就是好的，

这么美好的爱情有谁会不要？
有谁不想早上起床有人拥抱，
有人为你准备份体贴的早餐？
但幸福是要靠两个人把手牵好。

很多时候，
随著彼此的认识， 大家都会开始发现与对方不适合得地方，
但要切忌，
在这世上没有你的复制品
只要有沟通就一定会有摩擦
所以遇上问题时，
千万不要觉得烦、累，甚至想要逃避

请记住人是有弹性的， 只要你有心、有勇气， 与其到处去寻找未知的他/她， 还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的感情磨亮？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了， 所以人才会变得懒惰。 错！ 其实是人先被惰性征服，! 所以感情才会变淡的。

如果每个人都 懒得讲话、 懒得倾听、 懒得制造惊喜、 懒得温柔体贴， 那么那份感情将会变得暗淡无趣，渐渐的它将离你而去，所以请记住： 有活力的爱情， 是需要适度殷勤灌溉的。

其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的
可是因为很爱了，
所以继续爱得更多，给得更多；给对方更沉重的压力，
让彼此喘不过气来，
结果完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

相反的，
以前的我，总是爱自己比较多过他人
但，那时侯的爱情反而经营得很快乐，
这应该是所谓的八分爱吧！
就如：
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分
那么， 我应该也是做错了吧， 只能说对不起。。。

i'm ok.. =)

could we pls give this another chance to make it work?

IT's time

Sorry guys that i've not been updating my blog, i've been up and around since i got back home. well today i decided to blog about something because it's so difficult to let it out to others face to face.

To whom it may concern,
I know we've been hurt so badly and we've suffered terrible loss, and no matter how much we try to mend the broken hearts and the loss it will never be the same again. However, we should not always bring this loss up to hurt ourselves, it will only bring us nothing else but pain, by letting go it's better for everyone else. Afterall, it's been 7 years, even though i may sound like i dont care or i have no feelings towards what happened but isn't holding on to such a pain bring us no further and the one who left us will also not be in peace?

we will always want to remember the one who left us but definitely for how much she's brought love to us, how she has thought us to be a better person and so much more but not how she suffered, and how she left. I guess she will never really leave us because she'll always be in our hearts.

i believe in karma, those who put pain upon us will have their share of pain in time to come...

IT's time... to let go